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    Flattery And Flowery Language

    Flattery should be a surprise

    • A quality about the other they often doesn’t notice.

    • Tremors while using flattery signal that the other overwhelmed you and is making you emotional.

    • Arguments is a form that must be avoided.

      • When placed in one, you shouldn’t stay silent, as that will be admitting a loss.
      • You should stay calm instead, and use humor to defuse a situation.

    • Stay silent if your lack of words will allow the other to hang themselves publicly.

      • Frequency of words can implant ideas on other people.

    Flowery language is not the same as seduction

    • Too much of it and you will seem pretentious and dishonest.
      • Many times silence will be the best, what you don’t say is suggestive of some mysterious behavior of yours.

    LOK: 2. Social
    RL: K. M. M. The art of seduction
    IDEAS:     Seduction Seductive process Create pleasure and confusion (S-II) Flattery Power Words Language #Social_Intelligence