Mixing Pleasure With Pain

The climax becomes too weak if not laced with obstacles.
- Create tension that allows for a greater release.
Don’t worry about them abandoning, as we only abandon things that bore us.
By being harsh you create inner tension in their thinking, trying to understand you.
- Make cutting comments about their unconscious motivations and then stay silent.
- Silence leads to embarrassing admissions and a public hanging.

When they have something to complain about, they can play the victim and let go
- Once you turn pain into pleasure they will readily forgive you.
Stir up their jealousy, make them feel insecure, and then give into their ego.
- If necessary make them feel that they have lost you forever, make them feel like they lost the power to charm you.
Wait to let these feeling set in, and then the reconciliation will be emotionally charged.
This is only possible in people that live comfortable lives, not those who have lived in pain.
- Comfortable people will feel guilt that they have gotten away easy.