Poetization Of Your Presence

We have a self image that is more flattering than the truth.

  • It’s difficult to be honest about our limitations (ego).

    • The loved one must be overvalued over your own self esteem.
  • People want to fantasize you.

    • Don’t waste the opportunity by appearing banal or by becoming familiar.
  • When we first meet the person, and when doubt creeps in, are two important stages.

    • You desire the other, but you don’t know if they reciprocate.
    • Doubt is critical at making your imagination work double, deepening the poetizing process.

Associate yourself with things the other considers elevated.

  • Heightened experiences with emotions are going to be etched into their minds more.

    • Whether that be artistic or experimental.
  • Do everything for your target to keep thinking about you in your absence.

    • Letters, mementos, gifts, etc–give an omnipresence.
  • Being completely honest about yourself has merit.

    • The target may poeticize your vices and your honesty about them.
    • They will see more than there is.

LOK: 2. Social
RL: The art of seduction
IDEAS:
Presence Image Perception Seduction Seductive process Create pleasure and confusion (S-II)
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