Poetization Of Your Presence
We have a self image that is more flattering than the truth.
It’s difficult to be honest about our limitations (ego).
- The loved one must be overvalued over your own self esteem.
People want to fantasize you.
- Don’t waste the opportunity by appearing banal or by becoming familiar.
When we first meet the person, and when doubt creeps in, are two important stages.
- You desire the other, but you don’t know if they reciprocate.
- Doubt is critical at making your imagination work double, deepening the poetizing process.
Associate yourself with things the other considers elevated.
Heightened experiences with emotions are going to be etched into their minds more.
- Whether that be artistic or experimental.
Do everything for your target to keep thinking about you in your absence.
- Letters, mementos, gifts, etc–give an omnipresence.
Being completely honest about yourself has merit.
- The target may poeticize your vices and your honesty about them.
- They will see more than there is.
LOK: 2. Social
RL: The art of seduction
IDEAS: Presence Image Perception Seduction Seductive process Create pleasure and confusion (S-II)
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