Send Mixed Signals
Hint at complexity of personality that cannot be grasped in a week or two
Have mystery, promising great pleasure if obtained.
We are secretly oppressed by the rationality of our lives.
- Paradox is seductive as it thrives on ambiguity.
Engage the imagination–embellish with fantasies
Seem one thing (intelligent, rational, witty) and signal that you may be another (devilish, shy, spontaneous).
- Go against your physical appearance.
The first appearance is critical–don’t show too much desire for attention.
- Play it too cold and disinterested and nobody will come.
- Too much seek for attention signals insecurity.
LOK: 2. Social
RL: The art of seduction
IDEAS: Seduction Seductive process Stirring interest and desire (S-I)
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