Send Mixed Signals

Hint at complexity of personality that cannot be grasped in a week or two

  • Have mystery, promising great pleasure if obtained.

  • We are secretly oppressed by the rationality of our lives.

    • Paradox is seductive as it thrives on ambiguity.

Engage the imagination–embellish with fantasies

  • Seem one thing (intelligent, rational, witty) and signal that you may be another (devilish, shy, spontaneous).

    • Go against your physical appearance.
  • The first appearance is critical–don’t show too much desire for attention.

    • Play it too cold and disinterested and nobody will come.
    • Too much seek for attention signals insecurity.

LOK: 2. Social
RL: The art of seduction
IDEAS:
Seduction Seductive process Stirring interest and desire (S-I)
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